Beyonce最近一首很好听的歌 “If I were a boy”。

曾经我很庆幸自己是个女儿身，而且希望下辈子还是女孩，可以整天打扮得漂漂亮亮的，可以不太计较事业成就，可以只要快乐就行，可以胡搅蛮缠无理取闹，可以想哭就哭想笑就笑。

现在发现女性真的是个很弱势的群体。女性的视野太狭窄，大部分女性都活在家庭的小套子里面；而男性则活在这个精彩无限的大千世界里。在男性的眼中，他身边那个女人也许连半边天都算不了。

我知道我这么说很偏颇，但是我不得不这么说是因为我没法摆脱我是女性这个现实。就算我上了好的学校有了好的工作，我也只是个女的，一个只会越来越老越来越难看的女的。而这个世界上永远有比你年轻比你漂亮的女的存在。在美国的时候，有时候我还相信什么忠贞不渝；现在我觉得人就应该自私一点，因为如果你不欺骗别人，别人也一定会反过来欺骗你，所以不如采取主动，先发制人。

刚刚回国的时候有人给我算命，说我要学会利用男人。我知道这一招不适合我，因为我做不到。但是奉劝广大能做到却没做，或者年纪太小还没意识到其重要性的女性朋友：利用男人，保护自己！

If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I’d roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted and go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I’d kick it with who I wanted
And I’d never get confronted for it
Cause they'd stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man
I’d listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he’s taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
If I were a boy

I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it's broken
So they think that I was sleepin' alone
I’d put myself first
And make the rules as I go
Cause I know that she’d be faithful
Waiting for me to come home (to come home)

……
But you're just a boy
You don’t understand (Yeah, you don’t understand)
How it feels to love a girl
Someday you’ll wish you were a better man
You don’t listen to her
You don’t care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you've taken her for granted
And everything that had got destroyed
But you're just a boy